sometimes I just say things very bluntly because others are doing it but wont say it

this is very intentional as opposed to misreading the room, as its definitely for introspective purposes, but maybe I could fit on some part of the spectrum solely for thinking its okay to say divisive things!

They're not. I never think "Greetings, potential courtship participant. Shall we exercise a barter of hormones?" That's a maladjusted type of thinking.

But you're the one phrasing it in that purposefully maladjusted way. Paying lip service to someone you want to have sex with is entirely common.