Have been looking for such a book for almost my entire software developer career. Finally, I have found it! Though it's a very niche book, for a very specific subset of developers with very specific motivation and life goals. But man, really, huge thanks for mentioning it - that's something I was really missing, even felt depressed about being unable to find such a book, there are a lot of books and materials around the topic but until now couldn't find an actionable resource.