But yikes, some of us decided not to have kids because we don't like kids a lot. Having that as a requirement is a self-fulfilling comfort bubble though, I can see the reasoning.
I mean, you are free to do whatever you want, I was giving a suggestion in case people were not aware.
It's usually challenging to keep being friends with a person who doesn't want to be with your kids once you have them.
It's similar to the situation when you don't like someone's partner, there isn't much you can do.
