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> Sometimes people are acting in extremely perverse, foul, destructive and antisocial ways, and they need to be castigated for it rather than told how brave and powerful they are.

Precisely. This is what I am telling you right now. You lack the very manhood you espouse. Pathetic.

OP made some insightful points that will stick in my mind and impact my life, and I am sure many others feel the same way. Your comment, on the other hand, will soon be flagged out of existence. A complete waste of energy. Your time would have been better spent jacking off in a corner.



"Men don't open up" is anything but a insightful point, it is a common lame excuse to blame men for women shit behaviors.


> What does it look like? Checking in on friends, learning to open up yourself, increasing emotional intelligence, learning how to hold space and reflectively listen.

My female friends frequently remind me to check in on my male friends, and it’s valuable to reflect on why I don’t make the effort and what it would take to get me to change. Being more vulnerable would only improve my life and yet it feels so difficult. A trans perspective is particularly insightful here, I think, since it straddles both worlds.


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> No, it doesn't. Will this madness stop some day?

Many people disagree. You will either have to make peace with that or be a miser, I guess.

As for the rest, I suggest you take that red pill out of your mouth. The only thing it’s doing is poisoning you and robbing you of meaningful human connection.


> As for the rest, I suggest you take that red pill out of your mouth.

Talking about men opening up, but only if the problem is them. I suggest you the same. Stop hating men for no reason.




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